Rules Of Befriending People

Assalamualaikum wbt

1. When you barely know someone, don’t pretend that you know everything about him/her. That makes the person sick of you.

2. Give some space for people around you to breathe. Continuous irritation will make them even sicker. Oh yes. Some people hate purposeless conversations and lame questions. Please avoid them.

3. Keep professionalism as your priority. Not everyone in the world can accept jokes and casualness at the first meeting. Oh yes. There are two types of jokes. Acceptable and unacceptable. Do tell the acceptable one.

4. Remember, absence makes the heart grows fonder. In other words, keep yourself away is never too bad. One day, they will surely miss you.

5. But don’t cross the border. They will hate you. Even when you disappear, they won’t care anymore.

Note 1: Think harder to understand, ok. 🙂

Note 2: I acknowledge intelligent talks/responses. Otherwise, I ignore. This is me. Sorry.

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16 Responses to “Rules Of Befriending People”

  1. acai says on April 1st, 2009 at 6:40 am :

    yeaaay setuju ngan sarah..:) oh ya dah lama tak jadi first gak,hehe

  2. acai says on April 1st, 2009 at 6:42 am :

    ok, baru nak komen betul2..sangat setuju bukan semua orang bleh terima dengan semua joke..:) ada sesetengah joke yang orang lain rasa lawak dan ada juga yang rasa tersinggung dgn joke yang sama..jadi sblm buat camtu ngan orang lain kena pastikan sesuai ngan cara orang tu..tak kisahlah sapa yg buat awk rasa camtu, hope msge awk ni sampai kepada dia sarah ye..senyum sarah!!

  3. Sarah says on April 1st, 2009 at 7:04 am :

    Lama dah kita tak rebut2 nak jadi first kan. Dunia dah berubah. Masing2 dah ‘tua’. Hahaha. :mrgreen:

  4. Sarah says on April 1st, 2009 at 7:05 am :

    Acai, semua yang saya tulis ni kesinabungan entri lepas. Kalau faham betul2 la. Hehe. 😎

  5. Farhana says on April 1st, 2009 at 7:14 am :

    Salam Sarah,
    Saya setuju dengan #1…

  6. haritz says on April 1st, 2009 at 8:31 am :

    Different people different practice but some of your word I agreed 😉

  7. djambu says on April 1st, 2009 at 8:49 am :

    info yang bermanfaat dibaca untuk memulakan hari saya…:)

    terima kasih

  8. Yeop says on April 1st, 2009 at 10:59 am :

    Salam sarah,

    Agree!!!

  9. Khairul says on April 1st, 2009 at 8:48 pm :

    So, this happens to you? Kician Kak Sarah.

    Saya lain pulak ceritanye hari ni, ada orang baru di ofis. I want to make that person feels comfortable, so I made a lot jokes. And we got along just fine, sampai nak turun balik pun dia ajak sekali, hehe.

    Intelligent talk, idk. I enjoyed em, but hard to find one.

  10. Sarah says on April 1st, 2009 at 10:05 pm :

    Salam Farhana. Tu la. Kalau saya, tu prinsip no.1 saya. So, I expect the same thing in return 🙂

  11. Sarah says on April 1st, 2009 at 10:06 pm :

    Tapi saya rasa awak jenis yang easy going. Pergilah mana pun, dengan siapapun, semua orang senang dengan awak 🙂

  12. Sarah says on April 1st, 2009 at 10:10 pm :

    Khairul, to be honest, yes, it happened to me frequently! Mana tak sakit jiwa, kan. Huhu. At times, what you did is correct. We can make people feel ease and the sense of belonging to the new place will be enhanced. Bagus la gitu kan. Intelligent talks… I rarely can find it in internet. Hence, I build up some restrictions between me and virtual people just to not letting me feel disappointed again and again.

  13. Hazreen Rashid says on April 2nd, 2009 at 7:56 am :

    salam.

    hohoho….

    i know the drill… ni mesti org baru2 kenal, pastu cucuk2 ajak sembang kat YM, tanya2 soalan2 sia2 (suka lagu apa, minat movie apa) bla bla bla… pastu puji2 sket…

    good luck trying 2 escape… hehehe…

  14. adenia_lebak says on April 2nd, 2009 at 7:58 am :

    yaaa..setuju ngan kak ngah!!!
    taw tak ngah..org suke sggh jap kat blog ngah..
    tambah2 di saat diri butuh memerlukan suntikan motivasi..
    hhehehehehe.. :mrgreen:

  15. Sarah says on April 2nd, 2009 at 4:05 pm :

    Salam Hazreen.

    Ye. Kamu sangat betul. Tapi bukan di YM. KS tak guna YM. Tapi di Friendster dan email. Demi Allah menyampah. Dan sangat annoying la diorang tu.

  16. Sarah says on April 2nd, 2009 at 4:07 pm :

    Sebab kita sama je. Ngah faham kenapa awak setuju. Dayah, tadi Ngah call awak. Dua kali. Tapi tak berjawab. Maybe you were in class. I’ll call you back later.

    p/s: Eceh. Berbutuh-butuh ni. Dah terkena demam drama Indonesia ke apa ni 😛

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